美丽达人

• WHAT WE WANT AND WHAT WE HAVE

  2009-05-14

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  what we want and what we have
  

  One of the more pervasive and destructive mental tendencies I've seen is that of focusing on what we want instead of what we have. It doesn't seem to make my difference how much we have, we just keep expanding our list of desires, which guarantees we will remain dissatisfied. The mind-set that says "I'll be happy" when this desire is fulfilled is the same mind-set that will repeat itself once that desire is met.
  
  We want this or that. If we don't get what we want, we keep thinking about all that we don't have and we remain dissatisfied. If we do get what we want, we simply recreate the same thinking in our new circumstances. So, despite getting what we want, we still remain unhappy. Happiness can't be found when we are yearning for new desires.
  
  Luckily, there is a way to be happy. It involves changing the emphasis of our thinking from what we want to what we have. Rather than wishing you were able to take a vacation to Hawaii, think of how much fun you have had close to home. The list of possibilities is endless! Each time you notice yourself falling into the "I wish life were different" trap, back off and start over. Take a breath and remember all that you have to be grateful. When you focus not on what you want, but on what you have, you end up getting more of what you want anyway. If you focus on the good qualities of your spouse, she'll be more loving. If you are grateful for your job rather than complaining about it, you'll do a better job, be more productive, and probably end up getting a raise any-way. If you focus on ways to enjoy yourself around home rather than waiting to enjoy yourself in Hawaii, you'll end up having more fun. If you ever do get to Hawaii, you'll be in the habit of enjoying yourself. And, if by some chance you don't, you have a great life anyway.
  
  Make a note of yourself to start thinking more about what you have than what you want. If you do, your life will start appearing much better than before. For perhaps the first time in your life, you'll know what it means to feel satisfied.

  
  
  Fseremban 发表于13:00:00 | 阅读全文 | 评论 0 | 编辑 | 分享 0

• 意外

  2009-04-23

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      最近工作上发生了很多的意外，一客人投诉该寄的文件漏寄了，
  
  另一客人又马上投诉该寄的地址寄错了，当然不是我寄的，太忙请
  
  求同事帮忙寄出去，可是自己也有责任，该检查的时候没有来得及
  
  检查。接着就是客人该付的运费没有付，我又可怜兮兮的求客人汇
  
  过来。再接着就是该接的客人没有接到，赶到深圳机场打电话竟跟
  
  我说在广州，恨不得当场抽他，说好的怎么又突然改变，又不提前
  
  通知我。从机场回来又有意外，说客人汇的款竟然没有填帐号，银
  
  行要求那笔款马上退回去，我头真大了，明明我都写给他了，为何
  
  帐号都不填竟敢汇款，胆子真够大。很多事情，事与愿违，从错误
  
  中学习，在错误中改进，祝GOOD LUCK！

     
  Fseremban 发表于16:27:00 | 阅读全文 | 评论 0 | 编辑 | 分享 0

• Sarah's song

  2009-04-11

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  Mama how do I begin
  To explain this situation weˇre in
  Angels heard the beautiful words
  That you prayed
  And showed me the way to you
  
  And they knew you were in love
  So they sent me down from heaven above
  Angels cried and kissed me goodbye
  I was long gone  this is my song to you
  
  Oh, my song could never be
  As sweet as the song you sing to me
  Oh, my love could never be
  As deep as the love you give to me
  
  When your fingers touch my skin
  And you kiss my lips and tickle my chin
  I breathe you in, oh mama Iˇm where I belong
  This is my song to you
  
  Oh, my song could never be
  As sweet as the song you sing to me
  Oh, my love could never be
  As deep as the love you give to me
  
  Oh, one day I will be grown
  And I know Iˇll have a child on my own
  Remember me this way, cause some day
  Iˇll be long gone  singing my song to you
  
  Oh, my song could never be
  As sweet as the song you sing to me
  Oh, my love could never be
  As deep as the love you give to me
  

  
  
  春天来了，还没来得及好好踏青，还没来得及好好看看桃花、樱花、油菜花，还是没能按原计划去爬爬山，所有想的和实际的都差好远，看来计划是真的赶不上变化。老同学上周终于见到了，好不容易凑到一起，彻夜的聊还不够，只可惜时间过得太快，我们都在感叹生活，唯一能做的到就是慢慢回忆甜蜜的往事……
  
  所有的照片，只喜欢这一张，最自然不过！
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  Fseremban 发表于15:04:00 | 阅读全文 | 评论 0 | 编辑 | 分享 0

• 再忙也要快乐

  2009-04-01

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  今晚有点失望，说不出的味道。工作很忙很忙，每天都想着快点快点把工作完成，
  一天又一天过去了，工作似乎永远忙不完，忙了这事又来了那件事，直到刚五分钟
  前还在跟客人沟通，还在做订单，还在做报价还在发邮件，还在想着赶着明天下
  班之前把所有的事都要处理好，WHATEVER，不管忙的完忙不完，明天开始起本小
  姐要休假三天，好好陪朋友陪家人。
  
  
  
  
  Fseremban 发表于22:39:00 | 阅读全文 | 评论 0 | 编辑 | 分享 0

• A ZA，A ZA

  2009-03-25

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  最近最想说的话只有一个字“忙”，上一个星期在广州参展，早上七点起床，
  晚上两点左右睡觉，白天接待客户，忙的中午饭都是四五点才随便吃一点，晚
  上回来就发邮件，还要处理公司的事情，虽然说经济危机，但是这次的展会让我
  感觉并没有人们想像的那么的危机，来看展的老外比去年的展会还要多，当场给
  我们下单的新客户算下来也有五六十个柜左右。从展会回来的那天是周日，老板
  一个电话把我们都招过来及时联系客户，接着从周一一直到现在我都是从早忙到
  晚，给客人报价，下单，发邮件，晚上加到十二点、一两点都很正常，有种宁可
  今日抢一秒，不可明日等一分的感觉。有朋友问我这是为了什么，老板给你加薪吗？
  其实我也不知道为了什么，只是觉得我的工作，我的责任，我应该努力把它做到
  最好，尽我的能力为公司作奉献。
  A ZA，A ZA，为我加油吧！
  
  
  Fseremban 发表于13:42:00 | 阅读全文 | 评论 0 | 编辑 | 分享 0